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    no more handshaking please for God's sake

    -----Original Message-----
    From: adnanashraf@_____
    Sent: Tuesday, May 14, 2002 10:13 PM
    no more handshaking please for God's sake

    As-salaam alaykum,
    Dear brother,

    There is absolutely nothing to stress over. You just don't know the code. If
    you are interfaced with a woman who doesn't know Islam, when she confidently
    thrusts her hand out at you, you simply raise your hand to your heart, look
    at
    her and smile warmly, nodding your head. The hand to the heart is your
    greeting, and the smile is charity. The nod tells her that she is not being
    rejected as a freak of nature that should be immediately shuttled off to
    oblivion. If anything, she is slightly relieved because by now she thinks
    that
    you may have a contagious disease or something, which also works in your
    favour. Wa Allah ho Alim.

     

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